25 Years Later… Same Friends, New Habits! The ADDA Group: From Endless Conversations to “Happy Birthday” and “RIP” The Friendship That Survived Everything — Except Meeting Up Twenty-five years ago, we were young, energetic and absolutely convinced that we would remain in touch forever. We spoke for hours, met without planning, dropped into each other’s homes and made grand promises: “No matter where life takes us, we will always stay connected.” Then life happened. Jobs happened ,Children happened ,Transfers happened. And Business happened. Today, the same group survives on WhatsApp. Welcome to ADDA — the digital monument to a friendship that refuses to die, even if the members rarely meet. The New Definition of “Keeping in Touch” These days, keeping in touch has become wonderfully simple. Someone’s birthday arrives. Within seconds, the group comes alive. “Happy Birthday, dear friend! 🎂🎉” “Many many happy returns! God bless!” “Happy birthday bro! Stay blessed!” Then come the GI...
It was the New Year 2022 and my first blog of that year, Having escaped covid infection some carelessness crept into everyone. After-all inoculation offered immunity and freedom. Mid January covid rang my doorbell with mild but painful coughing and a home quarantine of 20 days. Days passed but during last week of January something interesting happened totally unexpected but pleasant, It was a phone call from my college friend. An invitation to join for reunion with college friends at Goa. So, the dates agreed were for second week of February. Like the H G Wells classic novel "Time Machine" some of the friends from class of 1994 were teleported back in time. No amount of success or failure in life mattered and no one carried the weight of life or the lines of time on their forehead. After spending those 2 days in Goa when we were jolted back to the present, every individual looked like he shaved off nearly a decade in their age. Younger selves in spirit and a p...